I would like to thank all of you for reading my blog, especially those that gave me feedback, or had something to say about it. As much as I found blogging my thoughts fun, I decided that it’s time to move on.
I find that I am not worthy enough to air my comments publicly, because looking back, a lot of the things I have said really lacked maturity, and i have yet to see the world, neither do I know people enough. Who gave me the right to judge and share it with the world?
Kw and his friends are right, I really lack maturity. I am blunt, I am not aware of what people feel, I do not listen closely to what people are telling me, and I do not take note of details around me. Sometimes I can come off as arrogant or ignorant, even though I don’t mean to.
This hasn’t affected just kw, but friends which I known through him, as well as some of my own friends, who have deserted me in the past because they could not tolerate it. Although, back then I didn’t see it as my problem, and labelled it as a ‘mismatch of opinions’
My parents just went through a horrible string of arguments which involved divorced. Thankfully, they made up. However, it started with my dad not being able to keep to his word, and assuming everything is alright, and that caused my mum to be frustrated and she blew up. Both of them are very short tempered, and soon the war started, and I was at loss at what to do.
During that time, I couldn’t sleep and I had a lot of time to reflect upon myself. If the divorce really happened, I had to grow up. I have to stop using my age as a way to defend myself, and anyway soon I’m already entering NS. I have to learn how to be independent, I have to learn how to deal with people if I was getting a job to support my dad or mum, and most of all, I had to be stronger in every aspect to make up for the lack of either parent. At that moment, I saw myself as weak and pathetic, and I couldn’t stand it anymore.
Although things turned out alright for them as I mentioned, I still feel the importance of growing up and learning to be a better person.
There are so many bridges that have been messed up or broken in my life, and I know it would be impossible to mend all of them. However, I know that I want to start anew, and I would at the very least try to mend those that are closest to me.
Words without actions are meaningless, and it will take time to show that I really changed. Nevertheless, I would like to take the opportunity to apologize to my family, kw, my ex, kw’s friends, my classmates, friends and acquaintances. I couldn’t sleep the entire night, not just because my parents were fighting, but also because I felt horrible for the negative impression and feelings I gave people, in which many cases I didn’t mean. If it were me, I would have highly disliked myself too.
Nevertheless, to all of you I really hope that you might consider giving me a second chance, and no matter how hard it is for me, I will continue to improve upon myself.
Therefore as a start, I am closing this blog, to shut the old me up, and to start afresh. I won’t be posting on blogs anymore, and I will be working on my academics, my relationships, and in the future my career.
Thank you so much for sticking with my blog!
— You will be in my prayers
BiBoy